Disobedience

Definition of disobedience

:refusal or neglect to obey
One may say that I like to have control in my life.  I admit, I feel most comfortable when I feel as though I have control.  I don't have to make all decisions in life in order to have control, but never did I think as a mistress, there would be a time that I didn't have control over my submissive.  
Chastity is a different type of sexual relationship with my husband.  But even before we engaged in chastity, I loved being with him during his orgasms.  It has always made me feel slightly jealous if he masturbates when I am not with him and I find out about it.  This is totally a double standard though, because there have been more than one occasion that I have pleased myself without him home.  Since we now have a chastity relationship, I feel even more possessive of his orgasms.  Isn't that kind of the point?  I CONTROL when he cums, and I CONTROL when he doesn't.  
Last night I worked late due to a meeting.  After work, I needed to go to the grocery store.  It was late when I came home......Subhubby told me he had a confession.....he had gone to the garage and unlocked his cage without permission to clean his cage, himself and shave.  He did way more than this.....he pleasured himself to an orgasm.  If there is one way to deflate the ego of your mistress, this is it.  I felt betrayed and jealous.  His orgasms are few and far between these days, mostly just tease and denial, or ruined Os; I like to watch his face as he cums.  
As punishment, he has lost all earned points in our points game and is awaiting the rest of his punishment tonight.  I debate......deny him orgasms, or make him cum multiple days in a row?????  

The games we play

I must say that I enjoy playing games with my submissive.  Chastity is in a way an exciting game that is constantly played for us.  We are frequent shoppers to Adam and Eve; we're finding that we have pretty much something from every category on their website; which makes playing at home super fun!  I ordered a waterproof prostate massager for my submissive a few weeks ago, I love to tease his ass while he's locked up.  I had his wrists bound to his ankles and played with his ass last week.  He was begging to cum and it feels so good to tease him and tell him no.  The new toy was a hit.

Something else that came in that package were a new dice game and a lucky sexy scratch off ticket.  Unfortunately for him, his the scratch off ticket did not reveal 3 matching sex positions so he wasn't allowed out of his cage and into my pussy.  We just played the dice game over the weekend.  We each rolled 3 times, the dice allowed him to be spanked 2 times, me once and some massaging, but no penetration.

We're always looking for new games to play and I love to find new ways to tease my submissive husband.  Comment and let me know games you like to play.

The Masked Mistess

Subhubby and I recently made a purchase.  We bought masquerade masks to wear.  It is exciting to try new things and we just need to make time to use them.  Subhubby enjoys photography as a hobby; what better way to use his skills than to take photos of his Mistress in her new mask?  We've come up with some ideas for photos, I need an avatar for my profile and so does he.  The internet has been a great inspiration for boudoir photography.

And then we started talking about our ideas for photography and we talked about a fantasy we both share; a three some.  Personally, it is a turn on to think about another man in the bedroom with us.  We both like the idea of wearing our masks while playing with another man, all while subhubby takes photos.  I'd like to make him take photos of another man entering me from behind; and not letting subhubby out of his cage.  I'd make him watch and be turned on, but not let him out to cum.

The world of chastity truly has opened our minds to ideas we never thought were possible.  Stay tuned, maybe we'll share some photos we take.