Vacation

If you read subhubby's latest blog post, you know that we recently came back from a vacation.  We traveled with only a carry-on and other family, so we unfortunately opted to leave his cage at home.  It felt good coming back and teasing him again.  6 days of no teasing is so boring!  When we got home on Monday, we were exhausted from traveling but wanted each other.  After a shower, I told him to leave the cage off.  Can you believe after being out of the cage for 6 days, he thought I would let him cum?? ;)  My orgasms that evening were fabulous.  In between each one, I brought him to the edge with my magic wand.  He says he loves to watch me cum, I really enjoy watching his face as he moans in pleasurably agony.  So did he get to cum????  No, but I think he had fun.  I did let him get behind me and fuck me.  I told him if he could thrust deeply 12 hard times, he could cum.  Secretly, I knew he couldn't make it after how many times I brought him to the edge, but it was felt so good to feel him try.  He made it to 8 and then had a ruined O......After this, he's locked away.

So for me, the saying is true.  It's nice to go away on vacation, but there truly is no place like home.....with your husband submissively locked away in his cage......allowing you to tease him and bring him to the edge and then denying his orgasm.

trick or treat?

10/31-Also known as Halloween.  A day for children to dress as their favorite super hero or character.  A night for us to play in our new sexy lingerie and wear our masks.  So what will subhubby get for Halloween???  Will it be a trick?  Or will it be a treat? 

I think tonight we'll let luck play a role in the festivities.....a roll of the dice and sexy lottery ticket..... Who knows, maybe he'll get lucky and he will get to use a sex position with his mistress, or maybe it's another evening locked up...... Too early to tell!

New version of normal

I never thought our sex life would be so much different after having a child.  It is completely different and so much better; friends always say how much worse it was after having a child.  Sure, the first year after a child was a readjustment, but I like to think of that time as resetting our passion for each other.  

Fast forward to 3 years later and we're planning our date nights around having enough time for kinky sex.  There was much anticipation to our overnight getaway this weekend.  We've talked for weeks about where we would go, and what we would do.  As we packed for our overnight trip, our small carry-on suitcase was equally full of clothes and toys.  Adult toys, and so many of them.  I packed my strap-on penis in anticipation of teasing my submissive with it.  We also came across a toy that we don't play with often; a double penis.  We couldn't remember why we don't use it, but thought we could pack it for the trip.  

We had a fabulous time exploring a couple of wineries and taking a scenic drive; it's nice to have adult conversation once in a while.  We checked into our hotel, changed, and went out for a delicious dinner.  Back at the hotel, we couldn't keep our hands off of each other.  We took some photos and eventually made it into the shower, where I allowed my submissive to enter me.  It wasn't very long and then he was begging to cum.  Of course, being the Mistress I am, I told him no.  I made him ruin his orgasm in the shower and then come back inside of me for more thrusting.  

After the shower, I used my wand for 2 phenomenal orgasms.  After this, I climbed onto the chaise sofa and put my end of the dildo inside.  Sub hubby climbed on top and rode me for an extended period of time.  It's such a rewarding site to watch his face as he moves in and out.  I stroked his penis as he continued to move.  It wasn't long and he couldn't help but the cum came flying, another ruined orgasm.  Sub hubby had 4 ruined orgasms that night.....but never the pleasure of a real one.  We'll be using this toy more often!

Why would we do this?  Kinky sex is our new normal and it has added such an element of pleasure and ecstasy that I didn't know was possible.  We may not have traditional sex frequently, but all of the time we spend playing with each other is beyond amazing.  I would absolutely recommend exploring with your partner to anyone that is questioning if they should.  Your new norm may not be the same as mine, but I hope you enjoy it. 

Punishment

In my last post, I wrote about subhubby disobeying me.  He unlocked himself, masturbated and had an orgasm while I was working late.  Mistress was not happy with this behavior.  Subhubby wrote in his blog about his punishment.  He also wrote that before this happened, he thought I was just playing along with Chastity, he didn't realize I was serious.  I think now he may know, Mistress will not be taken lightly.

His punishment lasted for 5 days.  He was left unlocked and given multiple orgasms.  To some men, this may not seem like punishment at all, it may seem great.  For someone in Chastity, being unlocked is taking you away from your comfort zone.  I felt that if subhubby wanted to be out to masturbate while I was working, his punishment was to be unlocked for an extended period of time. 

I got to tie him up, tease him and make him explode.  I love when he gets behind me and plunges deep inside me; so I made him do that.  Then when he came, I made him lick his cum from my body.  His punishment ended after he masturbated to the same video as the night I was working.  It didn't take me long to enjoy 2 toe curling orgasms that night; it also didn't take long for him to explode. 

After this last orgasm, I told him to clean up and then lock himself back up.  I think he has learned his lesson, but it was certainly enjoyable to punish him.

As subhuby wrote about, we both enjoy having sex with each other.  I wouldn't trade him for the world.  We have just figured out that we are not vanilla sex people, we love ways to spice up our lives and Chastity has certainly help us with this. Love you subhubby!